{"id":10090,"date":"2017-01-03T14:45:45","date_gmt":"2017-01-03T14:45:45","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.experiencetravelgroup.com\/blog\/?p=10090"},"modified":"2020-12-22T16:56:23","modified_gmt":"2020-12-22T16:56:23","slug":"late-gap-year-kellys-travels-vietnam","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/archive.experiencetravelgroup.com\/blog\/late-gap-year-kellys-travels-vietnam\/","title":{"rendered":"A rather late Gap Year: Kelly&#8217;s travels to Vietnam"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><em><strong>Our in-country partner Kelly uprooted from her native Yorkshire to develop and deliver our Vietnam experiences with travel loving locals. Here she shares her story and insider insights into life in this intriguing destination.&nbsp;<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-10091 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/www.experiencetravelgroup.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/12\/Hanoi-Out-with-the-boys.-e1481550206886.jpg\" alt=\"hanoi-out-with-the-boys\" width=\"800\" height=\"600\" data-id=\"10091\" srcset=\"https:\/\/archive.experiencetravelgroup.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/12\/Hanoi-Out-with-the-boys.-e1481550206886.jpg 800w, https:\/\/archive.experiencetravelgroup.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/12\/Hanoi-Out-with-the-boys.-e1481550206886-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/archive.experiencetravelgroup.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/12\/Hanoi-Out-with-the-boys.-e1481550206886-768x576.jpg 768w, https:\/\/archive.experiencetravelgroup.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/12\/Hanoi-Out-with-the-boys.-e1481550206886-585x439.jpg 585w, https:\/\/archive.experiencetravelgroup.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/12\/Hanoi-Out-with-the-boys.-e1481550206886-150x113.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<p>So how does a forty something girl from Yorkshire end up living, working and loving it in Hanoi? I guess I am just quite lucky!<\/p>\n<p>I have always worked in travel: airlines, tour operators, hotels, cruise lines etc. and I have been fortunate to have travelled extensively throughout Europe, the US and many other exciting destinations, but Asia, other than Thailand, had for some reason always eluded me\u2026.until 2 \u00bd years ago!<\/p>\n<p><strong><u>\u2018Something Different\u2019<\/u><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s when the stars aligned and I had the opportunity either to do something different, or continue as I was. I chose \u2018something different\u2019, sold almost everything I had, put what was left into storage and <strong>headed off on my rather late gap year.<\/strong><\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_10093\" style=\"width: 810px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-10093\" class=\"wp-image-10093 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/www.experiencetravelgroup.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/12\/Saigon-waiting-for-green.-e1481550339597.jpg\" alt=\"saigon-waiting-for-green\" width=\"800\" height=\"598\" data-id=\"10093\" srcset=\"https:\/\/archive.experiencetravelgroup.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/12\/Saigon-waiting-for-green.-e1481550339597.jpg 800w, https:\/\/archive.experiencetravelgroup.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/12\/Saigon-waiting-for-green.-e1481550339597-300x224.jpg 300w, https:\/\/archive.experiencetravelgroup.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/12\/Saigon-waiting-for-green.-e1481550339597-768x574.jpg 768w, https:\/\/archive.experiencetravelgroup.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/12\/Saigon-waiting-for-green.-e1481550339597-585x437.jpg 585w, https:\/\/archive.experiencetravelgroup.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/12\/Saigon-waiting-for-green.-e1481550339597-150x112.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><p id=\"caption-attachment-10093\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Traffic in Saigon<\/p><\/div>\n<hr \/>\n<p><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/info.experiencetravelgroup.com\/vietnam-country-guide\">Read our Vietnam travel guide&nbsp;\u00bb<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<p>I can\u2019t say I was a \u2018backpacker\u2019, as not once in my 5 \u00bd months travelling through Asia did my sturdy 30kg Samsonite suitcase go anywhere near my back, nor did I choose to \u2018share\u2019 a dorm with a bunch of 20 somethings; age does bring some privileges. My end destination was always China, as ever since I saw the film <em>The Last Emperor<\/em>&nbsp;I have had a fascination and romantic idea of the country and wanted to see it for myself, but on the way I decided to \u2018fit\u2019 in as much as I could.<br \/>\n<u><\/u><\/p>\n<p><strong><u>I made it!<\/u><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>First stop <a href=\"https:\/\/www.experiencetravelgroup.com\/vietnam\/info\/ho-chi-minh-saigon\">Saigon<\/a>\u2026it could not have been further removed from anywhere I had been before. Yes, I had done my research, I knew about the traffic, the war and history, I even re-watched <em>Good Morning Vietnam<\/em>, but none of that prepared me for the fact that I actually loved&nbsp;it.<\/p>\n<p>I was alone at the start of a big adventure and what I didn\u2019t expect was to feel really at home amongst the chaos and noise that was as far removed from Yorkshire life as you can get. I couldn\u2019t stop smiling as I walked the streets, grew my road crossing confidence (albeit with a few close calls!), and ate incredibly well.<\/p>\n<p>I was a very happy tourist and I did it all\u2026. the locals didn\u2019t always appreciate my enthusiastic attempts at the language, but looking back now I can\u2019t say I blame them.<\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<p><u><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/info.experiencetravelgroup.com\/vietnam-country-guide\">Read our Vietnam travel guide&nbsp;\u00bb<\/a><\/strong><\/u><\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<p><strong><u>Heading North<\/u><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>From Saigon I headed north to <a href=\"https:\/\/www.experiencetravelgroup.com\/vietnam\/info\/nha-trang\">Nha Trang<\/a>, then <a href=\"https:\/\/www.experiencetravelgroup.com\/vietnam\/info\/hoi-an-danang\">Da Nang<\/a> and <a href=\"https:\/\/www.experiencetravelgroup.com\/vietnam\/info\/hoi-an-danang\">Hoi An<\/a> and I continued to love the mixture of <a href=\"https:\/\/www.experiencetravelgroup.com\/blog\/2015\/09\/best-beaches-vietnam\/\">beautiful beaches<\/a>, diverse landscapes&nbsp;and changes in the food styles. Every different location brought new experiences. In my first Asian country, the people were so gentle and I quickly learnt that the more effort you make by being calm, respectful, appreciative and willing to interact with them, the more time they have for you.<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_10095\" style=\"width: 810px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"l\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-10095\"><img decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-10095\" class=\"size-full wp-image-10095\" src=\"https:\/\/www.experiencetravelgroup.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/12\/Gili-Islands-Not-really-roughing-it.-e1481550549496.jpg\" alt=\"Kelly in the Gili Islands: Not really roughing it\" width=\"800\" height=\"598\" data-id=\"10095\" srcset=\"https:\/\/archive.experiencetravelgroup.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/12\/Gili-Islands-Not-really-roughing-it.-e1481550549496.jpg 800w, https:\/\/archive.experiencetravelgroup.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/12\/Gili-Islands-Not-really-roughing-it.-e1481550549496-300x224.jpg 300w, https:\/\/archive.experiencetravelgroup.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/12\/Gili-Islands-Not-really-roughing-it.-e1481550549496-768x574.jpg 768w, https:\/\/archive.experiencetravelgroup.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/12\/Gili-Islands-Not-really-roughing-it.-e1481550549496-585x437.jpg 585w, https:\/\/archive.experiencetravelgroup.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/12\/Gili-Islands-Not-really-roughing-it.-e1481550549496-150x112.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-10095\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Kelly in the Gili Islands: Not really roughing it<\/p><\/div>\n<p><strong><u>All roads lead to China<\/u><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I travelled on through Bali, the Gilli Islands, Thailand, Cambodia, back to Thailand and finally on to China\u2026but always <a href=\"https:\/\/www.experiencetravelgroup.com\/vietnam\/\">Vietnam<\/a> came into my mind. I spent a year in China and as a tourist I loved all the sights and history\u2026the Forbidden Temple did not disappoint, but as an expat I found the lifestyle quite \u2018challenging\u2019 in many respects, so I made the decision to move on. Friends of mine were in <a href=\"https:\/\/www.experiencetravelgroup.com\/vietnam\/info\/hanoi\">Hanoi<\/a> at the time and told me if I liked the rest of Vietnam I would love Hanoi\u2026that was about all the encouragement I needed to book, pack and head off.<\/p>\n<p><strong><u><a href=\"https:\/\/www.experiencetravelgroup.com\/vietnam\/info\/hanoi\">Hanoi<\/a><\/u><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Landing back in Vietnam I got a feeling, no \u2013 not an \u2018iffy\u2019 tummy from the airline food, but a pleasant familiar emotion. Hanoi is not like Saigon. If possible, it is more chaotic and bonkers and my smile returned. The Old Quarter was an assault on every sense; coffee cafes available every few steps were a welcome sight, and I loved the French architecture; the grand government buildings, the tree lined avenues, the old traditional houses. I was back to being a tourist again, but I knew that wouldn\u2019t last as within a few days my mind was made up: I was staying.<br \/>\n<img decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-10096 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/www.experiencetravelgroup.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/12\/Hanoi-OQ-at-night2-e1481550844107.jpg\" alt=\"hanoi-oq-at-night2\" width=\"800\" height=\"690\" data-id=\"10096\" srcset=\"https:\/\/archive.experiencetravelgroup.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/12\/Hanoi-OQ-at-night2-e1481550844107.jpg 800w, https:\/\/archive.experiencetravelgroup.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/12\/Hanoi-OQ-at-night2-e1481550844107-300x259.jpg 300w, https:\/\/archive.experiencetravelgroup.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/12\/Hanoi-OQ-at-night2-e1481550844107-768x662.jpg 768w, https:\/\/archive.experiencetravelgroup.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/12\/Hanoi-OQ-at-night2-e1481550844107-585x505.jpg 585w, https:\/\/archive.experiencetravelgroup.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/12\/Hanoi-OQ-at-night2-e1481550844107-150x129.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<p><strong><u><a href=\"https:\/\/info.experiencetravelgroup.com\/vietnam-country-guide\">Read our Vietnam travel guide&nbsp;\u00bb<\/a><\/u><\/strong><\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<p><strong><u>Home\u2026for now<\/u><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Still living in Vietnam now there are many \u2018unusual\u2019 aspects that have assimilated into the norm for me, such as: having a spare pouch in my purse where I used to keep coins; seeing people walking around in pyjamas at all hours, handy if you need to nip out at night though; the noise of horns being blown, but no road rage; not separating my rubbish into recyclables because that is someone else\u2019s job; no central heating &#8211; or real seasons; getting no mail, not really a bad thing! Sure, sometimes it is time consuming hunting for things like a hard-medium bristled tooth brush (they only seem to stock soft) or non-whitening face cream so I don\u2019t look ill, a hot water bottle would be nice\u2026 but things like this are small in comparison to the pure joy of living here.<\/p>\n<p><strong><u>Finding the unusual<\/u><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I really enjoy working with the ETG team. They, like me, look for the more unusual in a place, where things are different. &nbsp;They appreciate, like me, that we are often fascinated by the daily life of locals and how their seemingly mundane activities can amaze us just because \u2018that\u2019s not how we do it\u2019.<\/p>\n<p>I had so many questions about why or how things should be done when I arrived\u2026and even now I still find curiosities that are wonderfully surprising \u2013 this is definitely not a country I will get \u2018bored\u2019 of anytime soon and sharing these \u2018titbits\u2019 of information with ETG is just part of my job.<br \/>\n<img decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-10097 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/www.experiencetravelgroup.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/12\/Hanoi-Tough-at-the-top2-e1481550969498.jpg\" alt=\"hanoi-tough-at-the-top2\" width=\"800\" height=\"680\" data-id=\"10097\" srcset=\"https:\/\/archive.experiencetravelgroup.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/12\/Hanoi-Tough-at-the-top2-e1481550969498.jpg 800w, https:\/\/archive.experiencetravelgroup.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/12\/Hanoi-Tough-at-the-top2-e1481550969498-300x255.jpg 300w, https:\/\/archive.experiencetravelgroup.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/12\/Hanoi-Tough-at-the-top2-e1481550969498-768x653.jpg 768w, https:\/\/archive.experiencetravelgroup.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/12\/Hanoi-Tough-at-the-top2-e1481550969498-585x497.jpg 585w, https:\/\/archive.experiencetravelgroup.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/12\/Hanoi-Tough-at-the-top2-e1481550969498-150x128.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong><u>Nothing wrong with a \u2018little\u2019 crazy<\/u><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Maybe I am a little crazy for learning to ride a moped in a city with over 4 million bikes, or calmly walking across 5 lanes of traffic without blinking an eye, getting up super early to watch the \u2018fan dancing\u2019 or Tai Chi in the park, popping to the flower market at 5am purely for the adrenaline buzz and breakfast, or meeting friends for egg coffee\u2026.but, these are just a few of the things that I couldn\u2019t even have dreamt of in Yorkshire\u2026. and if it does make me sound a little crazy, well, I can live with that.<\/p>\n<p>Vietnam is so different and diverse from north to south\u2026personally I am a \u2018Northern\u2019 girl \u2026but I think everyone should try a little of each area before they agree with me!<\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.experiencetravelgroup.com\/page\/vietnam-travel-guide\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-9246 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/www.experiencetravelgroup.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/08\/Get-Vietnam-download2-e1471619294612.jpg\" alt=\"Get Vietnam download2\" width=\"800\" height=\"311\" data-id=\"9246\" srcset=\"https:\/\/archive.experiencetravelgroup.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/08\/Get-Vietnam-download2-e1471619294612.jpg 800w, https:\/\/archive.experiencetravelgroup.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/08\/Get-Vietnam-download2-e1471619294612-300x117.jpg 300w, https:\/\/archive.experiencetravelgroup.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/08\/Get-Vietnam-download2-e1471619294612-768x299.jpg 768w, https:\/\/archive.experiencetravelgroup.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/08\/Get-Vietnam-download2-e1471619294612-585x227.jpg 585w, https:\/\/archive.experiencetravelgroup.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/08\/Get-Vietnam-download2-e1471619294612-150x58.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Our in-country partner Kelly uprooted from her native Yorkshire to develop and deliver our Vietnam experiences with travel loving locals. 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