{"id":13784,"date":"2019-01-24T13:05:05","date_gmt":"2019-01-24T13:05:05","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.experiencetravelgroup.com\/blog\/?p=13784"},"modified":"2022-11-16T12:23:56","modified_gmt":"2022-11-16T12:23:56","slug":"my-big-fat-lao-wedding","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/archive.experiencetravelgroup.com\/blog\/my-big-fat-lao-wedding\/","title":{"rendered":"My Big Fat Lao Wedding"},"content":{"rendered":"<div id=\"attachment_13793\" style=\"width: 1034px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-13793\" class=\"wp-image-13793 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/www.experiencetravelgroup.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/20181116_222014-1024x576.jpg\" alt=\"Bride and Groom in a picture at a lao wedding in luang prabang\" width=\"1024\" height=\"576\" \/><p id=\"caption-attachment-13793\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">The happy couple<\/p><\/div>\n<p>When Phonsy, my ETG guide in Luang Prabang, mentioned he was going to a traditional lao wedding the following night I didn&#8217;t think for one minute that I\u2019d be invited.<\/p>\n<p>And then, after a few games of <a href=\"https:\/\/www.experiencetravelgroup.com\/laos\/exp\/beat-the-locals-evening-game-of-pentanque\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">petanque<\/a> with his friends, plenty of Beer Lao, Sind Dat <a href=\"https:\/\/www.experiencetravelgroup.com\/blog\/food-northern-laos-2\/\">(Laos BBQ)<\/a> and then more Beer Lao\u2026 I was on the guest list.<\/p>\n<p>Sort of. It turns out that Phonsy&#8217;s wife could not make it as she was working so I became the plus one!<\/p>\n<p>After whizzing through the streets of Luang Prabang on the back of Phonsy\u2019s motorbike we arrived and were greeted by the bride and groom&#8217;s family on the red carpet as we passed a large framed photo of the happy couple.<\/p>\n<p>Behind was a stage for the entertainment and then dozens and dozens of tables with an incredible feast laid out: Lao buffalo sausage, plates of pork, cold salad, red curry and an extremely spicy pork and beef stew. And more Beer Lao.<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_13794\" style=\"width: 1034px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-13794\" class=\"wp-image-13794 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/www.experiencetravelgroup.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/20181116_211601-1024x576.jpg\" alt=\"Guests seated at tables during a local lao wedding in Luang Prabang\" width=\"1024\" height=\"576\" \/><p id=\"caption-attachment-13794\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">David&#8217;s fellow guests &#8211; were they all invited originally?!<\/p><\/div>\n<p>The venue was the playground of a local school hired for the evening &#8211; all possible on a Friday night! &#8211; and there was a huge number of people: over 1000 had been invited but not necessarily expected.<\/p>\n<p>The bride and groom circulated to meet the guests offering what I thought was Lao whisky but it turned out to be Johnny Walker.<\/p>\n<p>Kids climbed the trees and played on the swings while the adults chatted away. Some women made their husbands dance too&#8230;<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_13797\" style=\"width: 1034px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-13797\" class=\"wp-image-13797 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/www.experiencetravelgroup.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/20181116_212120-1024x576.jpg\" alt=\"A scene at a traditional lao wedding in Luang Prabang\" width=\"1024\" height=\"576\" \/><p id=\"caption-attachment-13797\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">David really wanted to be the centre of attention&#8230;<\/p><\/div>\n<p>Some of the petanque players from the previous night arrived a little later but then left quite early after eating but not drinking. Phonsy explained that some had been invited to up to 4 weddings on the same evening and were planning to visit all of them one by one and they did not want to get too drunk too early\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Phonsy had been invited to another wedding but had given his invitation to his brother-in-law instead &#8211; it&#8217;s a relaxed approach here! There were even others sat at the back with a drink &#8211; not invited but still very welcome. As was I &#8211; I can highly recommend taking up an invitation to a Lao wedding now&#8230;<\/p>\n<h2><\/h2>\n<h2 style=\"text-align: center;\">CURIOUS ABOUT LAOS?<\/h2>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">Click <a href=\"https:\/\/www.experiencetravelgroup.com\/laos\">here<\/a> to see our our suggested holidays in Laos. We can&#8217;t promise you&#8217;ll be able to attend a lao wedding on your own trip &#8211; but we can promise you&#8217;ll experience plenty of remarkable chance encounters.<\/p>\n<hr \/>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When Phonsy, my ETG guide in Luang Prabang, mentioned he was going to a traditional lao wedding the following night I didn&#8217;t think for one minute that I\u2019d be invited.&hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":57,"featured_media":13793,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_lmt_disableupdate":"","_lmt_disable":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[10],"tags":[249,714,1400],"coauthors":[1261],"class_list":["post-13784","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-laos","tag-festivals","tag-local-life","tag-travellers-tales"],"aioseo_notices":[],"views":4196,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/archive.experiencetravelgroup.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13784","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/archive.experiencetravelgroup.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/archive.experiencetravelgroup.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/archive.experiencetravelgroup.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/57"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/archive.experiencetravelgroup.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=13784"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/archive.experiencetravelgroup.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13784\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/archive.experiencetravelgroup.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/13793"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/archive.experiencetravelgroup.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=13784"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/archive.experiencetravelgroup.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=13784"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/archive.experiencetravelgroup.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=13784"},{"taxonomy":"author","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/archive.experiencetravelgroup.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/coauthors?post=13784"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}